Beating  Eating  Disorders

It’s completely normal and OK to gain several pounds when you’re going through puberty and becoming a woman. But as they become overly obsessed with their weight, many girls in their teens all over the world are at greatest risk of developing eating disorders. Yikes!

Here’s the Skinny …
“I started my eating disorder at age 13, the moment I noticed a little pocket of fat at my bikini line,” says Elizabeth, now an adult survivor of anorexia. “I was wearing a turquoise swimsuit with a ruffle -- a swimsuit that I loved and felt so feminine in -- but with that negative thought that "fat is bad".

No wonder a whopping 81 percent of 10-year-old girls say they’re “afraid of being fat.” A “body-perfect” illusion, promoted by the media and fashion industry, has girls tricked into thinking they should be unrealistically stick-thin.

“It was when I noticed that little pocket of fat that I decided to eat less,” says Elizabeth. “Very quickly, my entire self-worth became wrapped up in my body size. I became obsessed with thin models in magazines.”

Harsh but True
Elizabeth, quite literally, was starving herself. “I felt so in control while restricting my food intake and losing weight,” she says, “but then out of control when my body became so hungry that I would eat everything I could after several days of restricting.” Elizabeth was in the throes of anorexia nervosa, a disease defined by self-starvation and extreme weight loss.

Another dangerous disorder is bulimia nervosa, in which sufferers binge on large quantities of food in a short period and then purge by ridding calories through unhealthy means such as vomiting or taking laxatives (ew).

While there are other serious eating disorders, such as binge-eating disorder (this differs from bulimia in that there is no purging), anorexia and bulimia are the most dangerous and, well, life-threatening. “It is time to talk about eating disorders because people die,” states Lynn Grefe, CEO of the National Eating Disorders Association, which receives calls from all over the world.

Elizabeth, who finally sought help for her disease at age 20, became so thin that her teeth chipped, skin broke out and hair became brittle and started falling out. The brutal fact is, of all mental illnesses, eating disorders are the No. 1 killer. 

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Comments

Kellyvanilla Says...

Help for Eating Disorders!

If you feel you or a friend might be suffering from or at risk of developing an eating disorder, please talk to a parent, teacher, counselor or other trusted adult about your concerns. The National Eating Disorders Association help line is 1-800-931-2237. Calls are received from all over the world.

Posted by Kellyvanilla, 1/31/10 at 10:28 AM

leya Says...

I HATE MY BODY!

I really feel fat & ive tryed diets and everything...im barley 13 and i weigh 125 that wayy to much! but i would never go to those extreams of becoming anorexic...i TRY to like my body...but its hard to when im fat, or i feel fat

Posted by leya , 1/31/10 at 9:24 PM

Janell Says...

Uh,,

Wull I was obsessed with my weight too.. I even took laxatives for a couple of days but I realized that the best and healthiest way is to but workout and eat healthy and it looks slot better also.

Posted by Janell, 2/1/10 at 12:08 PM

im the same way Says...

jacy

im sry to hgear that but glad u seeked help

Posted by im the same way, 2/2/10 at 9:39 AM

ilovecheese Says...

hi

god thtd b scary im 10 and quite the opersite (dk how 2 spell tht lol) im tryin 2 put on weigh im so thin its ugly my ribs bulge out of my skin and no matter now much i eat i just cant put on weight!!!! HELP u dont think iv got eating disorder do u????

Posted by ilovecheese, 2/2/10 at 1:24 PM

Lovemybody Says...

I saved myself

I used to be a bulimic. Yea. And it's DISGUSTING! And UNHEALTHY. The disgusting habit started when I was 13, now I'm 17 and free of it. Well I decided to stop on 2nd Jan this year and that day was the last time I made myself vomit. It became my main NY RESOLUTION. Since then I feel GREAT than ever. I eat healthier, I exercise more often and I'm more confident about my body. If you're strong enough you really can help yourself.

Posted by Lovemybody, 2/4/10 at 6:29 PM

Anonymous Says...

Can't keep with it

I have issues with myself, obviously. I have dealt with EDNOS pretty much since 5 or 6 years ago. All different types, from eating nothing to eating and purging even if I barely ate, to eating anything unhealthy, to exercising at 2:15 in the morning... Now I'm struggling but feeling a bit better.

Posted by Anonymous, 2/5/10 at 1:14 PM

ttrackgrrl Says...

ilovecheese reponse

it's ok...i luv cheese. i am super skinny too and try to put on weight. it is totally okay if you r eating 'til ur full and eating healthy food. working out also helps to give you some muscle. it's completely fine to be skinny, in 20 years, you mite wish u were super skinny!! ha

Posted by ttrackgrrl, 2/5/10 at 4:17 PM

2010 girl Says...

uhg fat

i try ever diet and i eat healthy and everything but im not losing that much weight i only loose liek a pound a week what do i do!?!

Posted by 2010 girl, 2/5/10 at 7:34 PM

kiwi gurl/emnm Says...

omigosh itz SCARY

LOVEMYBODY! tht izz d worst 1 bless ur heart! nd itzz kinda nasty 2! any way i fell kinda fat im lyk not any where neer being fat but still want a flat stomach. i wudd NEVA EVA do d eating disorder thing. THEY IZZ SCARY! im 12. but i dnt wanna do anything lyk tht. FOR ALL U GIRLZ WHO WANNA FLAT STOMACH! I KNO HOW! ANY GAME OR EXERCISE THT MAKEZ U LEAN FORWARD @ ALL WILL HELP ND IT SHUDD WORK IN A MONTH IF U DO IT 4 30 MINZ EVERY DAY! CRUNCHEZ OR ANYTHING THT MAKES U USE UR STOMACH MUSCLES WILL HELP ALOT! ND MAKE SHR 2 EAT HEALTHY!

Posted by kiwi gurl/emnm, 2/6/10 at 12:13 AM

sarah Says...

over weight

hi im 16 nd i weigh 215 i kno i need help but im to embarresed to ask.. wat shuld i do?

Posted by sarah, 2/6/10 at 10:06 AM

Rice Krispies Rock!! Says...

omg!

my friend was anorexic but i helped her get back to her normal self again.she was 67 lbs. at age 11!! she now weighs a healthy 93 lbs.

Posted by Rice Krispies Rock!!, 2/7/10 at 10:45 PM

caroline Says...

WHAT????

leya, 125 pounds is NOT fat. seriously thats a perfect weight. besides, ur SUPPOSED to gain weight when you grow. and ppl see you differently than u see yourself. dont judge yourself so harshly. you will never healthily look like those girls in magizines, cuz they are PHOTOSHOPPED. so dont go crazy about it.

Posted by caroline, 2/8/10 at 9:11 PM

Martina Haily Says...

To Sarah

Try exercising and eating healthier and less calorie foods. I'm 14 and weigh a helthy 107 pounds. You'll feel better if you sometimes let lose and eat whatever you want!

Posted by Martina Haily, 2/9/10 at 6:45 AM

mrs. noname Says...

Hi

Hi i'm your typical white girl anorexic, age twelve seventh grade. I dont eat a lot and now i am: 5 feet 6 inches and 97 pounds i think. My parents dont know about this or my unhealthy eating habits (i have a lot) and im kinda worried about what might happen to me. If you have any online resources to help me recover without gaining too much weight (i was 108 pounds 3 months ago) let me know.

Posted by mrs. noname, 2/9/10 at 11:05 PM

not saying Says...

fat

ok im 11 and i waigh 215 pounds and i cant lose waight because its not fat i dont know wat it is because i have been on steroids all my life so i have no idea wat i would waigh if i was not on staroids but like i hate my body and everyone lies to me and says im not fat when i know i am and that herts me and i eat away the pain so it doesnt help!!!!! it sucks.

Posted by not saying, 2/10/10 at 9:09 PM

its ok NOT SAYING Says...

hi

its ok calm down i no someone who was over waight and she has been working out every night for the past couole months and has lost 20lb. all you need to work out is a chair and if you won't to some waights. you can do curl ups, jumping jacks and alot of other things. I hate to exersise so to get through it i listen to some muic and to make sure i work out every night my sister makes sure i do it and i do the same to her! try it start out easy GOOD LUCK

Posted by its ok NOT SAYING, 2/13/10 at 8:01 PM

Lily girl Says...

ughhhh

this may seem weird but im 10 and im 5 feet even i weigh 72 pounds and i have been trying to gain weight because i feel unhealthy but now i am self conscious and feel like i weigh too much even though i know that i dont help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by Lily girl, 2/14/10 at 1:39 PM

marie Says...

healthy

try to eat like salads i love them and u shouldent talke starouds ethier that can get ral bad if ur over wight dont just give up and dont start out jogging and not eating fav foods just do a cuple situps pushups jumping jacks whatever it takes then u can jog but u may eat ur fav foods just dont snack after words -marie

Posted by marie , 2/15/10 at 10:16 AM

Suheily Says...

Not True

well back around the 8th grade...i had a boyfriend i would skip lunch and breakfast to spend more time with him.unfortunenally rumors got started by saying i would go and throw up in the restroom after lunch the nurse form my skool called my parents and told her about this.for weeks my mom begged me to tell her the truth.but the truth was i wasnt lying i would never do that and ya i did think i was a lil fat but i joined sports and ate not so healthy lets just say my food today is not the best diet i should be having i weigh 111 and i love my body!!!! and the comment above mine you should execise more and try staying off those thing become more active!! -LOVE ALWAYS SUE.

Posted by Suheily, 2/15/10 at 2:59 PM

alicia Says...

how to use weight

iam really fat i weigh 200 pounds i try eating fruit but it dont work. what to do?

Posted by alicia, 2/19/10 at 10:07 AM

no name please Says...

fat

im 10 and i way 120 pounds help

Posted by no name please, 2/23/10 at 11:02 PM

no name please Says...

how 2 luse wate

Ok, the secret to losing weight is... EXERCISING MORE AND EATING LESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by no name please, 2/23/10 at 11:14 PM

twilight is my life Says...

ohboy

im13 and 145 but im tall so it doesent show so i feel like a fat pig how can i lose wieght without triying crash diets again

Posted by twilight is my life, 2/24/10 at 4:56 PM

sincia Says...

Am i fat?

Hi. i'm 15. my height is 5'7. my weight is147pounds. Am i fat? plz help me TT

Posted by sincia, 2/25/10 at 9:44 AM

Janet. Says...

nahhh.....

i guess, i'm a bit over weight, but seriously. who cares ? as long as ur not hugely fat, it doesn't matter. & starving urself is a strict no-no. seriously, how can u live without chocolate... yum ! =D

Posted by Janet., 3/3/10 at 1:51 AM

love pie person Says...

fat

i feel so fat i just cant stop eating i eat when ever i am board or deppressed wat 2 do

Posted by love pie person, 3/13/10 at 11:03 PM

u dont need 2 know Says...

help

ok i really need help im 10 and way 120 pounds HELP

Posted by u dont need 2 know, 3/14/10 at 5:19 PM

Sincia response Says...

fat

Don't worry, your perfect! That's a great bodyweight for your age! Just remember to always eat healthy and exercise everyday.

Posted by Sincia response, 3/18/10 at 11:12 PM

LURVE IT!! Says...

FAT OR NORMAL????

hi!! I'm 14, my height is 5'6 and I weigh 136 pounds.. Am I fat?? if I am, can you tell me how to lose weight??? please...please..please.. lurve ya!!

Posted by LURVE IT!!, 4/22/10 at 8:43 PM

Chunkey-Monkey Says...

me

I'm not fat but for a couple of day's I barley eat. For 2 days I've eaten only lunch.

Posted by Chunkey-Monkey, 5/8/10 at 6:13 AM

Glitz n Glam Says...

anorexia

Hey this is Glitz n Glam! You might take one look at me and think i have anorexia. I am a skinny girl and i hate being one, so all of you girls who a thick, be proud. The truth is i do not have anorexia. I eat normally. OK, maybe i eat a LOT. Especially JUNK food and i still can't gain weight. I am 12 and a half and i probably weigh about 80 pounds. I may have a hormonal imbalance or something because i eat but NOOOOO body fat what so ever.

Posted by Glitz n Glam, 5/8/10 at 2:26 PM

Glitz n Glam Says...

skinny

I have an eating problem. I have to have a snack such as a bag of potato chips or Chips Ahoy cookies or definantly a King size Snicker icecream bar every 3 to 5 mins. I eat but can't seem to gain weight. I'm 12 and a half and weigh about 80 lbs. And i eat a lot. What is my problem?

Posted by Glitz n Glam, 5/9/10 at 11:33 AM

Glitz n Glam Says...

being thick

Hey this is Glitz n Glam. TO ALL U THICK GIRLS OUT THERE AND TO ALL THE GIRLS WHO SAY U FEEL FAT AND R FAT.........I AM SOOOOO PROUD OF U GIRLS WHETHER U LIKE IT OR NOT. I am not as thick as yall. I am soooo skinny and i HATE that. I eat a lot but i dont gain a lot of weight except for when i went from 80 pounds to 107 pounds. I'm not saying i want to be fat, but i want to be thicker.

Posted by Glitz n Glam, 6/21/10 at 5:22 PM

Glitz n Glam Says...

skinny girls

Hey this is Glitz n Glam with another powerful message. I HAVE ONE THING TO SAY TO YOU- EVERY SKINNY GIRL YOU SEE DOES NOT HAVE AN EATING DISORDER. I REPEAT- EVERY SKINNY GIRL YOU SEE DOES NOT HAVE AN EATING DISORDER. They, or should i say we(which includes me) do not all have anorexia. So please do me a favor, PLEASE do not pick or tease a skinny girl saying she has an eating disorder, because it can be more serious than you think. They might have a stomach problem that keeps them from filling out. I thought thats what happened to me when i was 80 pounds at 12 yrs of age. But know i weigh 110 pounds. But im still concerned about being skinny.

Posted by Glitz n Glam, 7/21/10 at 8:51 PM

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