Da Kicking Flamingo Says...

I'm back

From checking out other websites and this one is a little better than the others so I'm going to stay on this website.

Posted by Da Kicking Flamingo, 7/6/09 at 9:14 AM

adrianna Says...

if thay no but dont wont to go out

pleas tell me your secret

Posted by adrianna, 7/6/09 at 4:09 PM

*sigh* Says...

..

i am way to shy nervous and not confident nuff to flirt. sometimes i wonder if ill ever have a boyfriend :(

Posted by *sigh*, 7/6/09 at 7:18 PM

kritika Says...

handle a guy

i am very shy and nervous , i had never talked him plese! tell me how to get start

Posted by kritika, 7/7/09 at 1:19 PM

chantelle Says...

flirting

i did it with my boyfriend but when were alone we sometimes hold hands but we always hug he does something that bugs me and when he went to miami he got me a necklace.it's beautiful i will never lose it

Posted by chantelle, 7/7/09 at 3:32 PM

*tears* Says...

.....

what happens if the guy knows ur flirting?

Posted by *tears*, 7/7/09 at 11:35 PM

s Says...

i like someone and they dont like me and i got over it we r friends now

Posted by s, 7/8/09 at 1:44 AM

D crazy Says...

guys

wat if the guy likes u but doesnt think (or kno) if u like him back? >:(

Posted by D crazy, 7/8/09 at 3:39 PM

Katie Says...

nervous

I always get nervous and make a fool out of myself around guys. I wish I could feel more comfortable ,and plus i'm not one of those girls who are such flirts. Boys never notice me.

Posted by Katie, 7/8/09 at 7:23 PM

love sexy boys Says...

sexy boys

i love sexy boys, but whenever i try to talk to them i get all chocked up. if i go to a restaraunt, i get so nervous if i get a cute waiter that it feels like i get all sweaty even though i'm never not. it seems really hard for me to even order. i never know what to order. please help!

Posted by love sexy boys, 7/8/09 at 11:53 PM

Da Kicking Flamingo Says...

In my town........

We start dating at nine or ten. I know, it sounds early. I live in a small town so all you have to do is walk to the one of the hangouts to meet with your boyfriend. We usaully date in groups of six. Too bad for me, I can't walk because I live one three miles from town. I get my Momma to drive me.

Posted by Da Kicking Flamingo, 7/9/09 at 9:50 AM

Annie :~) Says...

guys

i like guys i'm just so shy around them. i'm not shy with family and close friends but with other ppl my throuat hole closes and i have a small voice. Any advice???

Posted by Annie :~), 7/10/09 at 2:56 AM

to annie Says...

:)

me too same here all the way sista!!! i get so embarrassed bc of it, to make things worse all my friends are like experts at that kinda stuff. help soon!!!

Posted by to annie, 7/10/09 at 11:26 AM

Andie Says...

:)

i love flirting and these are great tips for if your too nervous. ;)

Posted by Andie, 7/12/09 at 6:54 AM

[940]-QUEEN-SPADE Says...

:(

I am always shy too around guys and i think i go for the guys i know i cant get and it just bugs me they dont look my way:( i think i just got the high standards or the fairy tale of having a really amazing hott bf....sad thing is im not "seen" what should i do i mean im not ugly:(

Posted by [940]-QUEEN-SPADE, 7/12/09 at 10:34 AM

ME Says...

HELP

the boy i like is also my best bud and he told me who he likes i have liked him for 2 years now and still want him 2 be in my life every second of every day but were going 2 different schools i still like him and have been going crazy cuz i cant see him over the summer and i know going different schools r going 2 kill me

Posted by ME, 7/13/09 at 7:06 PM

wateves Says...

not

i really hate wen all of my frenemys flirt 24/7!!! Its dum!!!

Posted by wateves, 7/13/09 at 9:54 PM

mel Says...

boys act like im there dud

i am a tom girl and i hang with boys and i have hot boys i hang with but they dont act like im a girl they say hi dud whats up

Posted by mel, 7/14/09 at 10:53 PM

scared to flirtt Says...

helpp.

how do i flirt but only enough to give the guy a hint and to not make the girls think im slutty.cuz everyone judges now a day.

Posted by scared to flirtt, 7/15/09 at 2:08 AM

ShushPupppy Says...

Flirting's okay. I've done it before but there's problem

i've flirted before with one of my guy friends that I liked and still do. He'd flirt back and then all of that backfired.

Posted by ShushPupppy, 7/15/09 at 1:25 PM

TARA Says...

flirt

I flirt when ever i see a cute guy! I like to flirt it makes me feel turned on ! I had one boy friend who broke up with me. becuse we can diffrents.

Posted by TARA, 7/16/09 at 12:53 PM

carrie rox Says...

loser guys

the only guys who i know 4 sure like me r jrks omg they r such losers... help me please!! :(

Posted by carrie rox, 7/16/09 at 4:23 PM

Lexie Says...

2 me

datz happinin 2 me 2 i liked this 1 guy this year and hez goin 2 a diff. middle skool ive been doin ok dis summer but i still miss him!!!! :(

Posted by Lexie, 7/18/09 at 3:49 AM

Jody Says...

Texting

the guy i like goes to a different school than me, but he lives in the road my school is in, so i drive past his house almost every day. were "just friends" and he is so sweet to me. i try to flirt, but i can only do it properly on the phone coz we dont c each other often! we talk on MXIT all the time. we werw meant to go out in a group to movies, but he keeps backing out with stupid excuses at the last minute. hes so nice to me, but i dont know what to do, coz i dont think he likes me as anything but a friend

Posted by Jody, 7/18/09 at 1:25 PM

rikki Says...

asked me once...

my EX friend got me really mad one day and set me up. she knew that one of my guy friends was going to ask me out so she got me really mad. so when he asked me out i was so mad i didnt pay attention. Do you think he will ask me out again?

Posted by rikki, 7/19/09 at 11:05 PM

daddy Says...

relaxing

look if your nervous around a guy stay away untill your calm. step1:take 5-10 deep breathes. step2:if you have a water bottle drink some. step3:now you apply your lip gloss not to much and not to little you need to look your best to flirt. step4:ok ready go let him know your there. step 4.5:LOOK IF YOUR THE REALLY NERVOUS TYPE TAKE A BOTTLE OF WATER WHITH YOU NOW YOUR READY TO FLIRT thats what my GF did whith me and i couldn't say no GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL

Posted by daddy, 7/20/09 at 12:03 PM

MIssa Says...

Gave me a ring

it was soo cool it had a butterfly but i lost it...

Posted by MIssa, 7/20/09 at 11:27 PM

Jennifer Says...

guys

i dont no much about guys. ive never really dated. i like this guy and some times i thin he likes me too buti cant be sure. he let me in his car nd even in his room. and he has a gf. wat do i do? i mean we would look in each others eyes 1 day and the nxt he would b a eal jerk!!!!! plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by Jennifer, 7/22/09 at 5:14 AM

bay Says...

love it!!!!

i luv ur wbsit

Posted by bay, 7/22/09 at 6:19 PM

blaaah! Says...

this guy..

ok so i asked this guy out because i knew he liked me and i obviously liked him right? so he says no and we completely avoided eachother, he said no because theres a prettier girl than me and really likes her. if a guy does this, just forget about him seriously. he is trying to be my friend again.. im thinking about it. sometimes i want to slap every guy, but im not going to.. because that would be very weird..

Posted by blaaah!, 7/23/09 at 12:17 AM

UNKNOWN Says...

tomboy

i am in 7th grade and i think you shoudn`t date until your in highschool.i mean i have hung out with my friends that are guys and most of them are immature.

Posted by UNKNOWN, 7/23/09 at 3:01 AM

Kayla :) Says...

dont be shy

i just want encorage some of the lovely ladies out there to try not to be shy! i use to be an extremly shy girl, i would hardly ever talk to anyone... but then i moved, had a fresh start, and i decided to challenge myself and do things i never would... like flirting with my crush! it makes SUCH a difference. sometimes when u flirt, they might not like u, but then you realize they really aren't worth it... so go out there and be yourself !

Posted by Kayla :), 7/24/09 at 11:23 PM

what do I do Says...

Flamigo swimmer

Well I have liked this guy for three years now and he never seems to give me a chance. he just leads me on to make me think he likes me then talks about how he likes this other girl. I told him I liked him a couple of months ago and he told me i was more like a friend to him. He's so nice and charming. ... but I can't seem to give up on him because for some reason, I think something will happen with us oneday...What DO I DO???

Posted by what do I do, 7/27/09 at 11:06 AM

really? Says...

wat else?

dude...um dudet. i hate guys id rather die alone. id rather not have friends, id rather have a dog. yeah u cud say im a loner, (cuz i am lol) those r just labels. dont care wat pthers think of u. there just concieded, were all eqauls. just dont hide!! show wat u can do! b calm and relaxed.

Posted by really?, 7/27/09 at 1:48 PM

Mommy Nebraska Says...

Hello Girls

I'm going to give you some advice: Never, Ever date until your fourteen. Before that, it brings you trouble.

Posted by Mommy Nebraska, 7/28/09 at 8:56 AM

la la land Says...

umm... hi?

i live in a small town and our school doesn't have many guys to choose from... but there r a few and they dont even notice me!! they only look at the girls that r slutty or easy to get... but i dont want to be that way so i dont kno how to get them to notice me without being like the other people... please help!!

Posted by la la land, 7/28/09 at 11:46 PM

Kayleen Says...

hey

I say let's be princesses about it! i've heard that really, guys like it better when they do the leading and askin out n such (obviously some are lazy, but the good ones that are worth it yeah.....) And for the record, guys are really lame when it comes to hints. they just hardly evr get it. like with some of y'all, Ive had to wait SO ridiculously long! and IDK if they ever noticed. Sometimes it just has to be SO incredibly obvious before theyll get it. So anyways, Ive been thinkin its prolly way more worth it to just kinda chill and wait for the really good guys--ya know, the ones with rspect an will treat me wiht respect to. So I'm thinkin I prolly dont have to worry too much about flirting. Theres someone special out there (evn if he isnt at my school right now). Im gonna wait for him. He'll come around. I lik to think he might appreciate that. And personally, Im a Christian and I know that Jesus can be all I need. So Im looking forward to learning more about that. Even if no guy ever wants me Christ already has. He's worthy of my whole life and focus anyhow. Theres lots of stuff to do in life too. Anyway Im goin on. Later girlies!! :)

Posted by Kayleen, 7/29/09 at 3:35 PM

loopy lala !!!!! Says...

i feel akward

i like this guy at school and i am not sure if he likes me back .my friend dropped a few hints for me and he said that he wasnt sure if he liked me and he was more interested in being friends anyway .I found this really cute and now i like him even more !!! what do i do ????????????????

Posted by loopy lala !!!!!, 7/29/09 at 5:50 PM

luv the jo bros Says...

@ la la land

just wait for a while. the right guy could take a little bit of time

Posted by luv the jo bros, 7/30/09 at 7:26 AM

missconfused Says...

what do i do

my best friend ever is a guy.when tell eachother everything and i help him with dating and stuff. but lately i have been thinking of him as more of a friend.all my friends have gone out with him, but say hat we have to go out because we would be a perfect couple. well i would really like to go out with him, i get butterflies when im talking to him, but i used to talk to him with no butterflies, i smile when i talk aout him, he is just so sweet and he treats me nicer than all his girlfriends. but i dont know if he likes me the same way i like him and im to scared to ask him out so what do i do because im afraid if i ask him out and he says no then things will be akward between us or if we ever do go out and then we break up if it will ruin our friendship..help please

Posted by missconfused, 7/30/09 at 8:20 AM

**Really *Shy** Says...

Major Help

I really like a guy but he does not know i am alive what do i do im to shy to even flash a smile or just say hi i need help

Posted by **Really *Shy**, 7/31/09 at 9:18 PM

Ms. Jayd Says...

I like my bstfrnds bf.

I don't kno y i do. We used 2 date and all but it didn't really work out. But now that he's been dating other girls i've become green with gucci envy and it won't go away. What am i supposed 2 do???

Posted by Ms. Jayd, 8/2/09 at 1:13 AM

Da Kicking Flamingo Says...

To missconfused

Okay first of all, get one of his best friends (not you) that you trust and tell his best friend to tell your crush that you like him and to ask him out. If your crush says yes, do a little happy dance and scream or whatever you do. If your crush says no, tell your crush it was a joke and don't cry over a boy, it's dumb, shallow, and you really should really shed those tears for our troops in the Mid-East.

Posted by Da Kicking Flamingo, 8/2/09 at 2:57 PM

TTS Says...

help

im 10 years old and i really want some attion but guys just think of me as a freind what should I do

Posted by TTS, 8/2/09 at 4:48 PM

The Ultimate Wallflower Says...

hey **really shy**

im super timid and shy too...all the time i think why me? why did God choose ME to be so shy and different? and kayleen u rock, im a christian too u inspired me to just be myself so thanks for that. ☺☺☺

Posted by The Ultimate Wallflower, 8/4/09 at 11:25 AM

mst Says...

if any one can help tell me.

I like to talk to gye's but i can't talk to them if there rele hot because i'll get so nerveous that i choke ander presuer and say something els that kinda dosen't make sence ......... what should i do????

Posted by mst, 8/9/09 at 9:03 PM

luv bug Says...

to mst

hey girl talk about things you both can relate to! Start by walking past him & doin a hot hair flip! Work ur way up!!

Posted by luv bug, 8/10/09 at 12:12 PM

UnDefined Says...

TO: TTs

Dont worry at all! Just find The RigHt OnE....

Posted by UnDefined, 8/12/09 at 2:35 AM

sorry no name Says...

Selena Gomez

Selena Gomez left my bff a mesage on her phone!!!

Posted by sorry no name, 9/6/09 at 10:10 PM

No Name Says...

To: All The Girls

Just be yourself. Just because u don't think a guy likes you don't try to change who you are. I didn't like my boyfriend at first i told my mom the day before we started dating i would never date him and thing happen. im happy with him and im just being myself i never asked him to like me or flirt with me or stare at me the first week of school.

Posted by No Name, 9/21/09 at 9:34 PM

Emily=] Says...

It's Hard!!

It's really hard to flirt if you know he doesn't like you back! DUH!

Posted by Emily=], 10/7/09 at 4:18 PM

thebaestgirlever!!!!!!!!! Says...

HELP ME!!!!

ok i like this boy even though i know he is a pig, i cant tell if he likes me but i think his friend likes me could that effect if he likes me or not?????? boys are so stupid when i try to flirt he just is lik"ok ya cool" then walks away , o does he or does he not?

Posted by thebaestgirlever!!!!!!!!!, 10/8/09 at 4:58 PM

ash234 Says...

flirting

what do i do if im not quite sure if he likes me and he flirts with me only sometimes and when i go up to talk to him i get all choked up so i just wait for him to come talk to me and i REALLY want him to ask me out what do i do?? help!!!!!!

Posted by ash234, 11/7/09 at 10:24 PM

Porkie Says...

HUHH?

How am i supposed ta flirt if i dont know if he likes me?*sigh*

Posted by Porkie, 1/25/10 at 8:16 AM

GlitznGlam Says...

FLIRT

I let boys flirt with me, i dont flirt with them back unless i have the confidence to. and PORKIE is right and what if he has a girlfriend. now if he smiles at me or shows some type of sign that he wants me, i will go for it and flirt with him

Posted by GlitznGlam, 2/9/10 at 6:59 PM

Porkie Says...

What does it mean?

What does it mean if a boy keeps on trying you beat you at stuff? And what does it feel like to be flirted with?

Posted by Porkie, 2/12/10 at 6:45 AM

Porkie Says...

?

Does any1 live in SA? ( South Africa) \0/

Posted by Porkie, 3/12/10 at 10:02 AM

babe in black Says...

to katie

omg!! guys bearlly notice me 2. the only way they notice me is if they r making fun of me or bein just plain mean.

Posted by babe in black, 4/19/10 at 10:28 PM

Porkie Says...

I'M NOT LOVED!!!

Just wat the title sed.... I'M NOT LOVED!!!

Posted by Porkie, 5/15/10 at 5:31 PM